A chance encounter at a Los Angeles diner led to a rekindled romance and a reaffirmation of the importance of compassion, according to a recent personal essay.
A Serendipitous Reunion
The author recounts a Sunday morning visit to John O’Groats on Pico Boulevard, where he unexpectedly ran into Renée, a woman he had met during a three-week consulting project in Washington, D.C. The previous month. He had been grappling with the recent end of a long-distance relationship and a self-imposed vow to avoid further heartbreak.
Renée had arrived in Los Angeles for a week-long work assignment. Their initial plan involved exploring the city’s attractions, and they compiled a list including the Petersen Automotive Museum, the Los Angeles County Museum of Art, Malibu, and Geoffrey’s restaurant.
An Act of Kindness
Although en route to the Los Angeles County Museum of Art, the pair noticed an elderly woman appearing lost and distressed on Wilshire Boulevard. Renée immediately stopped to assist her, discovering the woman simply wanted to head home and providing her address. They drove the woman home, where she was reunited with an anxious family member.
Inspired by Renée’s compassion, the author decided to forgo their planned itinerary and instead drive to Malibu, seeking a more intimate connection with Renée by the ocean. They ended the day with a kiss and plans to continue their exploration of Los Angeles.
The author reveals that this encounter occurred over 30 years ago and that he and Renée are now happily married, continuing to revisit the landmarks from their first date each year.
Frequently Asked Questions
Where did the author and Renée first meet?
The author and Renée first met during a three-week consulting project in Washington, D.C.
What landmarks did the author and Renée plan to visit?
They planned to visit the Petersen Automotive Museum, the Los Angeles County Museum of Art, Malibu, and Geoffrey’s restaurant.
What prompted the author to change their plans and go to Malibu?
Renée’s compassionate act of helping a lost woman inspired the author to prioritize their connection and seek a more intimate setting.
What qualities do you believe are most important when forming a meaningful connection with another person?
