Beyond “The Talk”: How Innovative Programs are Redefining Senior Sexual Health
Victoriaville, Quebec – A local organization is leading a quiet revolution in how we approach sexual health for seniors. The Bureau de lutte aux infections transmises sexuellement et par le sang (BLITSS) is expanding its card-based game, “Sexualisez,” thanks to a significant $245,000 investment. This isn’t just about preventing sexually transmitted and bloodborne infections (STBBI); it’s about fostering open conversations and addressing a long-neglected aspect of well-being.
Addressing a Taboo: Why Senior Sexual Health Matters
For too long, society has operated under the assumption that sexuality diminishes with age. BLITSS director Mylène St-Pierre notes that this often leads to “âgisme” – ageism – impacting how seniors perceive their own sexuality. The “Sexualisez” game aims to dismantle these taboos, creating a safe space for discussion. Initial feedback has been positive, with participants expressing surprise at topics covered and a newfound willingness to share experiences.
The game’s design is intentionally interactive. Players draw cards prompting discussions on a range of topics, from basic biology to consent and navigating relationships after loss. “It’s about getting people talking in all directions,” explains St-Pierre. “The card is just a starting point to unlock conversations.”
The Rising Numbers: STBBI Rates in Older Adults
While often associated with younger demographics, STBBI rates are demonstrably increasing among older adults. Recent data indicates a rise in cases of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis within this population. According to the Institut national de santé publique du Québec’s 2023 report, individuals aged 55 and over account for 12% of all HIV cases – a figure that shouldn’t be ignored.
This increase isn’t solely due to increased risk-taking. It’s also linked to a lack of awareness among both seniors and healthcare providers. St-Pierre recounts a case where a woman in her sixties was denied an STBBI test by her doctor, highlighting a systemic issue of assuming older adults are not sexually active.
Future-Proofing the Program: A Collaborative Approach
The new funding will allow BLITSS to refine “Sexualisez” through a two-year collaboration with the Centre collégial d’expertise en gérontologie at Cégep de Drummondville. The focus will be on gathering direct feedback from seniors to ensure the game is truly responsive to their needs.
This includes exploring topics like body image, adapting to physical changes associated with aging, and addressing the emotional complexities of sexuality after the loss of a partner. The goal is to create a comprehensive toolkit, including a detailed facilitator’s guide, to enable wider implementation of the program in settings like retirement residences.
Beyond Prevention: A Holistic View of Sexual Health
BLITSS emphasizes that sexual health encompasses more than just preventing STBBIs. It’s about pleasure, consent, equality, and understanding the biological changes that occur throughout life. The “Sexualisez” game aims to normalize these conversations, empowering seniors to advocate for their own well-being and seek appropriate healthcare.
Frequently Asked Questions
- What is the “Sexualisez” game? It’s an educational card game designed to facilitate open discussions about sexual health among individuals aged 55, and over.
- Why is sexual health important for seniors? Sexual health is an integral part of overall well-being at any age. Addressing it can improve quality of life, promote healthy relationships, and prevent STBBIs.
- Where is BLITSS located? BLITSS – Santé Sexuelle is located at 59 Rue Monfette # 116, Victoriaville, QC.
- Does BLITSS offer confidential services? Yes, BLITSS provides free and confidential support and services related to sexual health.
Pro Tip: Don’t hesitate to discuss sexual health concerns with your healthcare provider. You have the right to ask questions and receive respectful, informed care.
Did you know? The concept of “duty to have sexual relations” within a marriage is legally invalid. Consent is required for any sexual activity, regardless of marital status.
Want to learn more about sexual health resources in your area? Contact BLITSS or explore the resources available through the BLITSS website.
