Group “Šeškės” members discuss life after divorce as film premiere approaches
Members of the Lithuanian pop group “Šeškės”—Ingrida Martinkėnaitė, Karina Krysko, and Goda Alijeva—have shared personal reflections on divorce, framing the experience as a transformative life stage rather than a final failure. The public discussion coincides with the upcoming Lithuanian premiere of Andrius Blaževičius’ drama Skyrybos karo metu (Divorce During War), which is set to reach local theaters in mid-September following its initial release in the United States.
Reframing separation as a new beginning
The artists shared their perspectives in an interview published on the “M Films kinuose” Instagram account. Ingrida Martinkėnaitė emphasized that while divorce is a difficult life shift, it should not be viewed as the end of the world. According to Martinkėnaitė, closing old doors is often a necessary step to allow new, positive developments to enter one’s life. She expressed a belief that if two people are truly meant to be together, they may find their way back to each other, whether in a few years or in old age.
Karina Krysko echoed this sentiment, describing separation as the start of a new chapter. She noted that remaining in an unhappy relationship is not a viable long-term strategy, suggesting that the end of a marriage can serve as a catalyst for personal growth.
Goda Alijeva on the reality of relationship dissolution
Goda Alijeva provided insight into her own experience, specifically referencing her separation from former husband Rolandas Alijevas. She highlighted the importance of time, noting that such life-altering decisions rarely happen without warning. “I already knew that I was going to divorce for a couple of years,” Alijeva stated. She explained that she spent that time attempting to save the relationship, but ultimately realized those efforts were unsuccessful.
Pro tip: Experts often suggest that viewing divorce as a transition rather than a personal failure can help individuals focus on future well-being and personal development.
The musical connection to “Skyrybos karo metu”
The members of “Šeškės” have also contributed to the promotion of the film Skyrybos karo metu by reviving the song “Man reikia tavęs” (I Need You). The track, which previously appeared in the 2016 Andrius Blaževičius film Šventasis (The Saint), was re-recorded to give it a fresh sound for the new production.
The group members noted that the song evokes nostalgia, serving as a reminder of the time spent with a loved one. Martinkėnaitė stated that although the film centers on the theme of divorce, the group hopes to highlight that separation often brings about necessary changes, and that the song acts as a tribute to past shared experiences.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is the director of the film Skyrybos karo metu?
The drama is directed by Andrius Blaževičius.
When will Skyrybos karo metu be released in Lithuania?
The film is scheduled to reach Lithuanian theaters in mid-September.
What is the significance of the song “Man reikia tavęs”?
The song was originally featured in the 2016 film Šventasis and has been re-released by the group “Šeškės” as part of the soundtrack for Skyrybos karo metu.
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