AnneKee Molenaar has opened up for the first time about her split from Matthijs de Ligt, describing the canceled wedding period as absolute “hell” in an interview on Robbert Rodenburg’s YouTube series Guncle. According to Molenaar, the couple mutually decided to end their romantic relationship just three weeks before their big wedding in Italy, despite years of shared life abroad.
Life in the Spotlight: From Amsterdam to International Moves
The relationship began when Molenaar and De Ligt were roughly seventeen or eighteen years old, according to Molenaar’s interview on Guncle. What followed was an intense period she described as “one big rollercoaster.” Within months of dating and sharing a brief time living together in Amsterdam, the couple relocated to Italy as De Ligt’s career advanced.
Molenaar noted that moving abroad felt entirely natural at the time. “It was never really a theme of: am I going to do this? Am I going with him to a foreign country?” she stated in the YouTube series. Operating as a tight-knit unit—which she affectionately referred to as “Jut en Jul”—the pair navigated the demands of international life together during their youth.
Personal Growth and Changing Priorities in Munich
Significant shifts occurred in Molenaar’s daily routine after the couple transitioned from Turin, Italy, to Munich, Germany. According to her statements on Guncle, the relocation prompted a major reassessment of her personal ambitions. She chose to put both her modeling career and her law studies on hold.

For the first time, Molenaar experienced a lifestyle where her schedule was not completely filled by external demands. Surrounded by nature and granted newfound personal space, she spent time figuring out her individual identity, preferences, and social circles independently from her long-term partnership.
The Canceled Italian Wedding and Managing Public Speculation
Despite years of a stable partnership, the relationship dynamic shifted significantly last year. Molenaar revealed that they ultimately concluded their romantic connection was no longer working. The timing proved particularly difficult because preparations for a large-scale wedding in Italy were already finalized, with invitations sent out to family, friends, and acquaintances.

Just three weeks prior to the celebration, the event was called off entirely. When asked by Robbert Rodenburg about experiencing that period, Molenaar offered a concise response: “Hell. Hell.” She added that notifying all invited guests shortly before the scheduled date added considerable weight to an already difficult situation.
Molenaar acknowledged that outsiders naturally look for explanations because the sudden end feels surreal to observers. However, she firmly dismissed rumors of dramatic conflict or hidden betrayal, stating simply in the interview, “I hate to break it: it is just not the case.”
Frequently Asked Questions
Who did AnneKee Molenaar break up with?
AnneKee Molenaar ended her long-term relationship with Matthijs de Ligt.
Where did AnneKee Molenaar discuss the breakup?
She spoke about the split during an appearance on Robbert Rodenburg’s YouTube series Guncle.
Why was the wedding canceled?
According to Molenaar, the couple realized after years together that their relationship no longer worked on a romantic level, leading them to call off the wedding three weeks before it was set to take place in Italy.
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