Prince Harry is facing criticism for allegedly weaponizing Princess Diana’s memory ahead of the upcoming 30th anniversary of her death, while Prince William has declined interview offers and plans to mark the milestone privately with his family.
As preparations begin for the 30th anniversary of Princess Diana’s fatal car crash in Paris, the deep divide between her two sons has once again come into sharp focus. Prince Harry is reportedly moving forward with a new documentary about his mother, an anticipated project expected to stream on Netflix through his first-look agreement with the platform. Royal commentators and observers note that the move highlights the ongoing estrangement between the brothers, who have not spoken since the death of their grandmother Queen Elizabeth II four years ago.
Dickie Arbiter and Royal Aides Call Out Upcoming Netflix Project Plans
The anniversary plans have drawn sharp external critique. Dickie Arbiter, former press secretary to Queen Elizabeth, argued that the solemn milestone should pass without public spectacle, suggesting to the Daily Express that We should let her rest in peace.
“Harry is weaponizing his mother. Everything he does, he does in his mother’s name… He’s got to get on with his life. William has, and William’s doing a great job.”
Dickie Arbiter, former press secretary to Queen Elizabeth, via Yahoo
Prince William Declines Offers and Prioritizes Private Family Remembrance
In stark contrast to his brother’s public approach, Prince William has firmly rejected proposals to participate in media tributes. The Sunday Times reported that the Prince of Wales has declined several offers to make or appear in a documentary tribute to his late mother as the date approaches.
William’s refusal echoes his stance following the 20th anniversary in 2018, after which he declared that we won't be doing this again.
Rather than engaging in televised commemorations, William intends to observe the anniversary quietly with his family. Observers note this mirrors his broader strategy since Catherine’s cancer diagnosis, which involves maintaining distance from turbulent outside pressures and focusing strictly on public-facing duties and supporting King Charles.

Earl Spencer’s Memoir Reopens Family Tensions Involving King Charles
The friction surrounding the upcoming anniversary coincides with renewed scrutiny over Earl Charles Spencer’s recent book, Swan Song: Diana, My Sister. The memoir details the troubled marriage between King Charles and the late princess, prompting intense palace reaction.
The situation has intensified the protective stance around the British monarchy, leaving relations between the brothers more fractured than ever as the 30th-anniversary milestone draws closer.
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