The distinction between the structured ritual of a funeral Mass and the more emotionally raw experience of a wake service highlights a key aspect of faith and grief, according to recent commentary from Father John Kartje, rector and president of the University of St. Mary of the Lake/Mundelein Seminary.
Understanding the Emotional Landscape
Unlike funeral Masses, which follow established liturgical guidelines, wake services are characterized by their lack of formal structure, allowing for a more spontaneous expression of pain and loss. This distinction is particularly relevant when considering the Gospel account of Mary of Magdala’s visit to the tomb.
Mary’s experience, as described in John’s Gospel, mirrors the chaotic emotions often present at a wake service. She anticipates encountering a corpse and preparing it for burial, not a resurrection. She expects no crowds, no music, and certainly not the empty tomb she discovers.
The Weight of Uncertainty
The reading of John 20:1-9 intentionally stops short of depicting Mary’s joyful encounter with the risen Jesus. This deliberate choice, Father Kartje notes, forces reflection on the uncertainty that can accompany faith when promises seem unfulfilled. The reading emphasizes Mary’s initial confusion and fear upon discovering the empty tomb, believing Jesus’ body had been stolen.
Despite her confusion, Mary remained at the tomb, voicing her distress. This act of remaining, Father Kartje suggests, prepared her to receive Jesus when he eventually appeared. The commentary draws a parallel to the human desire for immediate resolution, contrasting it with the reality that “resurrection joy” may not arrive on a predetermined timeline.
The eight days of the Easter octave are, appropriately referred to as “Easter Day,” acknowledging that the experience of resurrection can unfold over time – days, months, or even years.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between a funeral Mass and a wake service?
A funeral Mass follows a set liturgical structure, while a wake service is characterized by its lack of formal guidelines and allows for a more spontaneous expression of grief.
What was Mary of Magdala expecting when she went to the tomb?
Mary of Magdala was preparing to anoint the body of Jesus, anticipating encountering a corpse and following a ritual.
Why does the Gospel reading end before Mary encounters the risen Jesus?
The reading ends intentionally to encourage reflection on the uncertainty that can accompany faith and the importance of remaining with difficult emotions.
How do you navigate periods of uncertainty and doubt in your own faith journey?
