A growing disconnect between young people and adults is raising concerns in the Bronx, according to Bervin Harris, Founder, President, and CEO of Renaissance Youth Center.
A Widening Generational Gap
Harris describes a troubling trend: young people increasingly disconnected from the adults who could guide them, and from each other. He characterizes this as a “blank stare,” previously dubbed “Zombieism,” and now referred to as “Disconnected Youth.” This manifests as confidence online contrasted with hesitancy in face-to-face conversations, and a struggle to engage in basic greetings.
This silence, Harris argues, has significant consequences. Communication between generations is vital for a strong community, facilitating the transfer of knowledge, preventing mistakes, and shaping future leaders. When this connection weakens, the entire community suffers.
A Shift in Mentorship
Harris notes a change in how wisdom is traditionally passed down – from informal interactions at bus stops and barbershops to a reliance on screens and algorithms. While technology offers convenience, it has likewise contributed to a widening generational divide. He emphasizes that this is not about placing blame, but acknowledging a shift that impacts young people’s opportunities for maturity, character development, and learning from lived experiences.
Adults also lose when youth withdraw, missing the chance to transfer hard-earned lessons and entrust responsibility. A community’s strength relies on the continuous circulation of wisdom, family values, and cultural traditions.
Despite these concerns, Harris remains hopeful, citing examples of teenagers opening up with non-judgmental listening, and young people rising to the occasion when given responsibility. He recalls a childhood filled with guidance from coaches, park regulars, and fishermen who offered patience and instruction.
Five Steps to Reconnection
Harris proposes five steps to bridge the generational gap:
- Make conversation a daily practice.
- Share personal stories, including struggles.
- Give young people responsibility.
- Correct with patience, not shame.
- Create spaces for intergenerational mixing.
He concludes that a thriving Bronx requires intentional reconnection between generations, emphasizing the importance of reaching back while moving forward to build maturity, leadership, and community strength.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the central concern expressed in this article?
The central concern is the growing disconnect between young people and adults, leading to a loss of communication and the transfer of wisdom between generations.
What does Bervin Harris do?
Bervin Harris is the Founder, President, and CEO of Renaissance Youth Center, where he has worked for over three decades to create pathways for young people in the Bronx.
What is the “Gen Z stare”?
The “Gen Z stare” is a term used by The New York Times to describe introverted isolation, also referred to by Harris as “Zombieism” and “Disconnected Youth.”
What steps can communities take to foster stronger connections between generations?
