Why Celebrating Love Every Day Is Becoming the New Normal
When TV 2’s weather chief Eli Kari Gjengedal talks about love, she doesn’t wait for February 14. She says, “I celebrate Valentine’s every day with Tom,” and she backs it up with a simple recipe: have fun together and make sure you adore each other completely. The couple’s 12‑year marriage, which began with a spontaneous Las Vegas ceremony in 2014, proves that daily appreciation can thrive even when partners live in opposite ends of the country.
Long‑Distance Love Made Workable
Eli Kari lives in Bergen while husband Tom Saxegaard calls Drammen home. Despite the distance, they keep the spark alive by treating each other as a source of joy and by constantly reminding each other of their deep affection. Their story shows that a successful partnership doesn’t require a shared roof; it needs intentional effort and mutual admiration.
Making Fun the Core of a Relationship
According to Eli Kari, “It should be fun to be with your partner, and they should dig you wildly.” This emphasis on joy aligns with a growing conversation among couples who prioritize playfulness over routine. When partners view each other as a source of happiness, the relationship feels less like a duty and more like an adventure.
Adoration as a Daily Habit
“He is so deeply in love with me… it’s extremely, very nice,” Eli Kari admits. The couple’s mantra—being wildly adored—has turn into a cornerstone of their marriage. By vocalizing admiration every day, they reinforce a positive feedback loop that strengthens emotional bonds.
Future Directions Inspired by Their Approach
While Eli Kari and Tom’s story is uniquely theirs, the principles they champion are likely to influence how couples think about love in the years ahead:
- Daily love rituals: More couples may adopt short, intentional moments of gratitude rather than saving affection for special dates.
- Play‑first mindset: Relationship coaching could increasingly focus on “fun metrics” as a predictor of long‑term satisfaction.
- Remote‑relationship tools: As distance becomes less of a barrier, platforms that enable shared experiences (virtual cooking, co‑watching shows) may see higher adoption.
Real‑World Example
During a recent product launch for Vendela Kirsebom × Lyko, the pair shared their love philosophy with the press. Their candid remarks were covered by Dagbladet, highlighting how everyday affection can become a public inspiration.
FAQ
- How can a couple celebrate Valentine’s Day every day?
- By making compact gestures—compliments, surprise messages, or shared activities—part of daily routine.
- Is it possible to stay married while living in different cities?
- Yes. Eli Kari and Tom’s 12‑year marriage shows that mutual respect, fun, and daily admiration can bridge geographic gaps.
- What are the two key ingredients Eli Kari mentions for a happy relationship?
- Having fun together and being wildly adored by your partner.
Take the Next Step
Are you ready to inject more fun and daily appreciation into your relationship? Read our guide on building lasting love or share your own love rituals in the comments below. Don’t forget to subscribe to our newsletter for weekly tips on thriving partnerships.
