London’s Shadow: A Rising Tide of Intimate Partner Violence
A tragic incident in south London on Friday – the death of a woman and the arrest of a man known to her – underscores a disturbing trend gripping the city and communities across Canada. While police investigations continue, the case resonates with a growing number of similar tragedies, prompting a critical examination of intimate partner violence (IPV) and femicide.
The Escalating Crisis: Beyond Statistics
London’s declaration of IPV and femicide as an epidemic in 2023 wasn’t a symbolic gesture. It acknowledged a stark reality: the number of women losing their lives to intimate partners is not decreasing fast enough. Cases like those of Cheryl Sheldon, Caitlin Jennings, Tiffany Gates, and Breanna Broadfoot are not isolated incidents; they represent a pattern of escalating violence. According to Statistics Canada, reported cases of intimate partner violence increased during the COVID-19 pandemic, and while numbers have fluctuated, the underlying risk remains significant. The Canadian Femicide Observatory for Prevention provides detailed data and analysis on femicide cases across the country, highlighting the urgent need for preventative measures. Learn more about their work here.
Factors Fueling the Increase
Several interconnected factors contribute to this rise. Socioeconomic stressors, including housing insecurity and financial hardship, can exacerbate tensions within relationships. Mental health challenges, often compounded by limited access to affordable and timely care, play a significant role. Furthermore, societal norms that perpetuate gender inequality and normalize controlling behaviors create a breeding ground for abuse. The normalization of online harassment and stalking also extends the reach of abusive tactics.
The Role of Technology and Digital Abuse
Digital abuse is a rapidly growing component of IPV. Perpetrators use technology to monitor, control, and harass their partners. This includes tracking location via smartphones, controlling access to finances through online banking, and engaging in online stalking and harassment. The rise of social media platforms provides new avenues for abuse, making it harder for victims to escape. The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers resources on digital safety for victims of abuse.
Future Trends: What to Expect
Experts predict several key trends in the coming years:
- Increased Digital Abuse: As technology evolves, so will the tactics used by abusers. Expect to see more sophisticated forms of digital surveillance and control.
- Coercive Control as a Focus: Law enforcement and the legal system are increasingly recognizing coercive control – a pattern of controlling and manipulative behaviors – as a serious form of abuse, even in the absence of physical violence.
- Trauma-Informed Approaches: There will be a greater emphasis on trauma-informed care for survivors, recognizing the long-term impact of abuse on mental and physical health.
- Preventative Education: More resources will be dedicated to preventative education programs aimed at challenging harmful gender norms and promoting healthy relationships, starting at a young age.
- Data-Driven Interventions: Improved data collection and analysis will allow for more targeted and effective interventions.

Resources and Support
If you or someone you know is struggling, here’s where to get help:
For anyone affected by family or intimate partner violence, there is support available through crisis lines and local support services. If you’re in immediate danger or fear for your safety or that of others around you, please call 911.
In London, support is also available through Anova, Atlosha Native Family Healing Services, London Abused Women’s Centre, Regional Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Treatment Centre, and Victim Services of Middlesex-London.
FAQ
- What is coercive control?
- Coercive control is a pattern of controlling, manipulative, and threatening behaviors used to isolate and dominate a partner. It doesn’t always involve physical violence, but it’s a serious form of abuse.
- How can I help a friend who is experiencing IPV?
- Listen without judgment, believe them, and offer support. Encourage them to seek professional help and connect them with resources. Do not pressure them to leave, as that decision is theirs alone.
- What is femicide?
- Femicide is the intentional killing of a woman because of her gender. It is often the culmination of a pattern of abuse and control.
- Where can I find more information about IPV statistics in Canada?
- Statistics Canada and the Canadian Femicide Observatory for Prevention are excellent resources for data and analysis.
Pro Tip: If you suspect someone is being digitally monitored, help them secure their devices and accounts. Change passwords, review privacy settings, and consider using a secure messaging app.
This is a complex issue requiring a multi-faceted approach. By understanding the evolving nature of IPV and supporting preventative measures, we can work towards a future where everyone feels safe and respected.
What are your thoughts on how communities can better address intimate partner violence? Share your ideas in the comments below.
