Beyond Aesthetics: Finding Wellbeing in Exercise & Body Acceptance

The Evolving Relationship Between Fitness, Mental Wellbeing, and Body Image

Images from Ancient Greece depict athletic men with defined muscles as a sign of strength and virility. At the end of the 19th century, building on these ideals, Eugen Sandow created what we now call bodybuilding as a means to achieve the ideal body. This pursuit of the “ideal” has echoed through fitness trends, from the 1980s aerobics videos featuring Jane Fonda to today’s fitness influencers on social media.

From Physical Prowess to Holistic Wellness

Still, physical activity hasn’t always been solely linked to aesthetic pressure. Ancient Greece similarly prioritized the balance between mind and body, indicating that wellbeing was aligned with physical movement. Today, the understanding of fitness is shifting. Increasingly, sedentary lifestyles are recognized as a risk factor for various diseases. Yet, the persistent emphasis on thinness as a beauty standard raises questions about whether it’s possible to detach from aesthetic pressure while exercising.

Finding Motivation Beyond Aesthetics

For many, the initial motivation for exercise is weight loss. But research in motivation and sports psychology suggests that this isn’t necessarily the most sustainable driver. The theory of self-determination proposes that intrinsic motivation – that which comes from within, like the feeling of wellbeing – is far more enduring than extrinsic motivation, which is regulated by social pressure or rewards. A focus on aesthetic results can be easily undermined by the slow pace of progress.

The Power of Intrinsic Motivation: Ellen Valias’ Story

Ellen Valias, 44, found refuge in physical activity for her mental health. She experienced racism and body shaming as a child, but found respect and a sense of belonging through basketball. Later, she associated exercise with weight loss, leading to a less enjoyable experience. After experiencing anxiety, she embraced the body positive movement and began studying physical education. She now focuses on strength training for her mental health, to play basketball with her children, and to maintain her overall physical function, having completed a half marathon in 2022.

Reframing Exercise: From Correction to Care

The narrative around exercise is changing. Instead of viewing the body as a project to be fixed, the goal is increasingly to see it as a system to be cared for. Regular physical activity significantly reduces the risks of cardiovascular diseases, type 2 diabetes, stroke, and various cancers, while also improving insulin sensitivity and glycemic control, independent of weight loss. It also offers substantial benefits for mental health.

Beyond Weight Loss: A Multifaceted Approach

Experts recommend exploring different modalities – dance, nature walks, swimming, team sports – to find activities that are genuinely enjoyable. Exercise offers experiences beyond physical benefits, such as connecting with the city, interacting with others, and experiencing nature. Tracking measurable progress, like improved endurance or increased strength, can also foster a positive relationship with physical activity.

The Risks of Extremes and Obsession

However, it’s important to acknowledge the potential downsides. An extreme focus on fitness can lead to excess, while an obsessive pursuit of results can be detrimental. For individuals with body image distortion or eating disorders, physical activity can become a tool for punishment, compulsion, and obsession. The attempt to conform to external standards can transform exercise into an obligation, leading to guilt and anxiety if neglected.

A Balanced Perspective

A healthy relationship with exercise begins when the body is no longer seen as a project to be corrected, but as a system to be cared for.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Is it possible to exercise without feeling pressure to change my body? Yes. Focusing on the enjoyment of movement and the health benefits, rather than solely on aesthetics, can assist.
  • What if I start exercising to lose weight but lose motivation? Shift your focus to the non-aesthetic benefits, such as increased energy, improved mood, and better sleep.
  • How can I find an exercise I enjoy? Experiment with different activities until you find something that feels good and fits your lifestyle.
  • Is it okay to grab breaks from exercise? Absolutely. Rest and recovery are essential for both physical and mental wellbeing.

Pro Tip: Keep a fitness journal to track your progress and celebrate your achievements, focusing on how you *experience* rather than just how you look.

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