Cecilie «Cess» Steinmann Neess is returning to the spotlight after a nearly five-year hiatus to focus on motherhood and family. The 39-year-old comedian, now a mother of two and engaged to musician Benjamin Giørtz, describes the transition from public life to parenthood as both “the most fantastic” and “completely overwhelming,” according to her appearance on the podcast Ida med hjertet i hånden.
Why did Cecilie Steinmann Neess leave the public eye?
Steinmann Neess stepped away from the limelight for nearly five years following her relationship with Benjamin Giørtz and her subsequent pregnancies. She told host Ida Fladen that she entered a phase where she no longer craved attention or the need to share her life on social media.
The comedian noted that her withdrawal was a deliberate choice. Having worked in comedy since age 19, she wanted to prioritize her time with her partner and children. “The time with the two small boys, I can’t get back,” she stated in the podcast.
How does she describe the reality of motherhood?
Despite dreaming of becoming a mother her entire life, Steinmann Neess admits the reality was more intense than expected. She told Ida med hjertet i hånden that the role brings a constant sense of responsibility, alertness, anxiety, and unrest.
She specifically identifies as a “flink-pike-mamma” (a “good girl” mom). She contrasted her initial expectation of being a “free and cool” parent who would casually take a child to meetings in a baby carrier with her current reality of strict scheduling and ensuring her child rests at the correct times.
What is the timeline of her return to comedy?
The return to the stage has been gradual. In the spring, she performed in the production Treretters alongside Martin Lepperød and Kevin Vågenes. According to a statement given to VG, she will embark on a tour this autumn with Treretters, featuring Kevin Vågenes and Rasmus Wold.
Steinmann Neess told VG that returning to work has been beneficial for her identity. She stated that she feels she is “blooming” as a mother and partner now that she is back on stage doing what she is best at, allowing her to be her “whole self” rather than just a mother.
How has her personal life evolved since 2018?
The transition from her public persona to her private life involved several key milestones:
- 2018: Announced she had a boyfriend (Benjamin Giørtz), whom she met while working on her own show.
- 2022: Welcomed her first child with Giørtz.
- March 2025: Announced her engagement to Giørtz.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is Cecilie Steinmann Neess engaged to?
She is engaged to musician Benjamin Giørtz.
How long was she away from the public?
She was out of the spotlight for nearly five years.
What is her latest professional project?
She is touring the show Treretters with Kevin Vågenes and Rasmus Wold.
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