Liverpool forward Cody Gakpo scored for the Netherlands during a recent tournament match against Morocco, days after his partner, Noa van der Bij, announced the death of their unborn son, Elijah Raphael Gakpo. According to BBC Sport, Gakpo played in the last-32 tie, which ended in a 3-2 penalty shootout defeat for the Netherlands following a 1-1 draw.
The Impact of Personal Tragedy on Performance
Professional athletes often face intense scrutiny while managing significant personal loss. In the case of Gakpo, the 27-year-old chose to remain with his national squad despite the pregnancy loss, which his partner confirmed on social media on Saturday. The couple had been expecting their second child in October.

During the match against Morocco, Gakpo’s teammates provided visible support immediately after he scored. As reported by BBC Sport, he fell to his knees in an emotional moment before being surrounded by players. Captain Virgil van Dijk was seen embracing Gakpo as the team regrouped to return to their half.
Cody Gakpo started every match for the Netherlands during the World Cup, tallying three goals throughout the tournament, before being substituted in the 113th minute against Morocco.
How Professional Sports Teams Manage Bereavement
The incident highlights the evolving ways sports organizations handle player welfare during personal crises. While Gakpo opted to continue playing, the presence of his teammates—particularly veteran leaders like Van Dijk—serves as a primary support system during high-pressure tournaments.
The match itself concluded with a 3-2 shootout loss for the Netherlands. After Illsa Diop scored an equalizer in stoppage time to force extra time, the Dutch side struggled to convert in the subsequent shootout. Gakpo did not participate in the penalties, having been withdrawn from the field shortly before the end of extra time.
Public Response and Support
The announcement regarding the loss of Elijah Raphael Gakpo prompted widespread public sympathy. On Saturday, Noa van der Bij shared a photograph on social media depicting the couple’s hands resting over a small knitted hat and blanket. Her statement read: “With broken hearts, we share the devastating news that our baby boy passed away during pregnancy. Thank you for your love and support. Elijah Raphael Gakpo. Forever loved. Forever our son.”
Frequently Asked Questions
- Did Cody Gakpo play in the penalty shootout against Morocco? No, he was substituted in the 113th minute and did not participate in the shootout.
- When was the baby due? According to the announcement by Noa van der Bij, the baby was due in October.
- Who provided support to Gakpo on the field? Teammates swarmed him after his goal, and captain Virgil van Dijk embraced him as they returned to their half.
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