The Psychology of Chaos: Why Some People Stay Calm (and Others Grab Champagne) During a Crisis
When emergency sirens wail or gunfire erupts, the standard human response is “fight, flight, or freeze.” However, recent events at high-profile gatherings have highlighted a growing set of unconventional reactions: the “unbothered” observer and the “opportunistic” documentarian.
From guests continuing their meal amidst a security swarm to individuals capturing selfies whereas others seek cover, we are seeing a shift in how people process high-stress environments. This intersection of urban desensitization and “main character syndrome” is redefining the social contract during emergencies.
The Rise of Crisis Desensitization
One of the most striking examples of unconventional crisis response is the “calm observer.” During a recent security incident at the Washington Hilton, Michael Glantz, a senior talent agent with the Creative Artists Agency, became a viral sensation for continuing to eat his burrata salad while heavily armed Secret Service agents swarmed the ballroom.

Glantz’s reaction—attributing his calm to being a “New Yorker” accustomed to constant sirens and activity—points to a broader trend: urban desensitization. In hyper-stimulating city environments, the threshold for what constitutes a “shocking” event increases.
The Role of Practical Constraints
Psychology suggests that perceived physical limitations can also override the fear response. Glantz noted that a “bad back” and a desire to retain his new tuxedo off a “dirty Hilton floor” were primary factors in his decision not to dive for cover.

This suggests a future trend where “calculated apathy” becomes more common. People may weigh the immediate risk of a threat against the immediate inconvenience of the safety protocol, choosing the latter if the threat feels distant or “cinematic.”
“Main Character Syndrome” and the Spectacle of Emergency
While some respond with calm, others respond with opportunism. In the aftermath of the same event that saw Glantz eating his salad, cameras captured a woman surreptitiously taking unopened bottles of champagne and wine from a table, while another attendee took a selfie with a bottle of champagne in the background.
This behavior aligns with what sociologists call “Main Character Syndrome”—the tendency to view one’s life as a movie and the surrounding chaos as a mere backdrop for personal content or gain.
The Digital Validation Loop
The drive to document a crisis in real-time for social media often overrides the social instinct to help or the survival instinct to hide. We are moving toward an era where the “digital record” of an event is perceived as more valuable than the immediate physical safety of the moment.
This trend is likely to increase as augmented reality and instant-sharing platforms make the “live-streamed crisis” a primary way people interact with the world. The emergency becomes a “content opportunity” rather than a danger.
The Evolution of High-Profile Event Security
As guest reactions become less predictable, security protocols must evolve. The sight of rifle-wielding officers in tactical gear moving through a luxury ballroom is becoming a jarring but necessary reality for events involving high-value targets, such as Donald Trump.

Future trends in security will likely move toward behavioral analytics. Instead of assuming all guests will follow a standard evacuation route, security teams will demand to account for:
- The Non-Compliant: Individuals who refuse to move due to physical limitations or indifference.
- The Documentarians: Guests who may obstruct exits or security movements to capture footage.
- The Opportunists: Those who use the confusion of a security breach to commit petty theft.
For more on how security is adapting to modern threats, explore our guide on Modern Tactical Event Management.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why do some people stay calm during a shooting or emergency?
Factors include urban desensitization (being used to chaos), physical limitations that make moving tricky, or a psychological “freeze” response that looks like calmness.
What is “Main Character Syndrome” in a crisis?
It is the tendency to prioritize one’s own narrative or social media presence over the gravity of a situation, often leading to behaviors like taking selfies or stealing items during a chaotic event.
How does urban living affect fear responses?
People living in high-activity cities often develop a higher tolerance for sirens and emergency responses, which can lead to a more muted reaction when actual danger arises.
What would you do?
Would you be the one diving for cover, the one capturing the moment for Instagram, or the one finishing your salad? Let us know in the comments below or subscribe to our newsletter for more deep dives into human behavior.
