As Norway prepares for its national day, the upcoming celebrations highlight a diverse array of traditions. While many adhere to the classic staples of ice cream, soda and brass band music, others are implementing specific strategies to balance festive cheer with personal well-being.
Promoting Inclusivity and Community
Former Paralympic athlete Birgit Skarstein, 37, emphasizes the importance of community during the festivities. She plans to celebrate with her partner, son, sister’s family, and friends.
Skarstein has issued a call for Norwegians to be more inclusive with their invitations. Noting that some of her international friends feel excluded by “cliquey” or unique traditions, she urges people to “invite generously and broadly” to ensure everyone feels they belong.
For Skarstein, the holiday has evolved. Having retired as an athlete on January 1, 2025, she previously spent the day balancing celebrations with two or three training sessions and singing the national anthem.
The Balance of Tradition and Personal Expression
The role of the bunad remains a central point of the celebration, though views on how to wear it vary. Actress Line Verndal, 54, describes herself as very traditional, favoring the classic combination of the bunad and sparkling wine with strawberries.

Verndal supports the practice of sewing one’s own bunad, noting that original versions can be expensive. She encourages individuals to do as they wish, despite the presence of the so-called “bunad police.”
Similarly, program leader Bahare Viken, 32, advocates for personalization. Viken wears a Valdresbunad but has replaced the traditional shirt with a red silk shirt to give the garment a more personal touch.
Family Focus and the “17. Mai-Knekken”
For many, the day is centered on children. Stig Henrik Hoff, 61, views the holiday as “the children’s day,” noting that while his teenagers may find spending time with parents less appealing, he still participates in the parades in front of the Palace.
Other parents, such as artist Ingrid Helene Håvik, 38, and Maria Mena, 40, prioritize their children’s school parades. Mena, celebrating with her two-year-old, plans a traditional Oslo itinerary including breakfast at the Bristol and eating hot dogs and ice cream.
To avoid the “17. Mai-knekken”—a term referring to the physical or emotional crash following the festivities—Bahare Viken suggests keeping a flexible schedule. Viken, a former flute player and drill girl in the brass band, prefers an open day to avoid hitting a wall at the wrong time.
High-Profile Social Circuits
The celebrations in Oslo often include high-profile gatherings. Elisabeth Andreassen, 68, plans to visit the Grand Hotel, where Christian Ringnes traditionally hosts a celebrity event, as well as the Theatercaféen with her daughter.

Despite the social demands of the city, Andreassen intends to conclude her celebrations in a more quiet setting, retreating to her cabin for the evening.
Future Outlook
As the day unfolds, the atmosphere could be heavily influenced by the weather, a particular concern for those planning outdoor parades. The ongoing debate over bunad customization may continue to evolve as more people seek to personalize their national dress.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who does Birgit Skarstein suggest should be invited more broadly to celebrations?
Skarstein suggests inviting international friends who may not feel part of the community due to the unique and sometimes “cliquey” nature of Norwegian traditions.
How does Bahare Viken personalize her Valdresbunad?
Viken has given her bunad a personal touch by replacing the standard bunad shirt with a red silk shirt.
What is the “17. Mai-knekken” mentioned in the text?
While not explicitly defined, it is referred to as a “crash” that can happen if the day is planned too rigidly, leading Bahare Viken to keep her schedule open to avoid it.
How do you balance tradition with personal expression during your own holiday celebrations?
