The Performative Obituary: Why Modern Journalism Struggles with Authenticity
The modern obituary has evolved from a historical record of a life into a stage for self-promotion, where the writer often displaces the subject to center their own narrative. According to media critics, this shift reflects a broader trend in high-profile columnism, where the “Grande Inviato” (senior correspondent) uses the passing of a notable figure to solidify their own professional legacy rather than providing an objective biographical account for the reader.
Why do columnists center themselves in obituaries?
Columnists frequently use the death of a prominent peer to establish their own proximity to power, effectively turning a tribute into a curated memoir. Research into journalistic norms suggests that by emphasizing intimate, exclusive anecdotes—such as shared travels or private conversations—the writer frames themselves as an indispensable guardian of the subject’s legacy. This creates a “mitomania” effect, where the deceased becomes a secondary character in the columnist’s own life story. The focus shifts from the subject’s intellectual or professional contributions to the writer’s personal history, leaving the reader with little objective data to form an independent judgment.
The evolution of the “virtuoso” obituary
The trope of the subject “departing on tiptoe” (andarsene in punta di piedi) has become a standardized shorthand in obituary writing, despite its lack of concrete meaning. Critics argue this language is a hallmark of “aestheticized” journalism, designed to evoke a sense of refined tragedy that rarely matches the reality of a subject’s life. By adopting these stylized, repetitive phrases, writers attempt to elevate their prose to a literary standard. However, this often results in a distancing effect, where the actual life of the deceased is obscured by the clichéd expectations of the genre.
Are funerals becoming media spectacles?

Funeral coverage has increasingly transformed into a theatrical performance, often orchestrated to serve the interests of the media rather than the grieving process. Observers note that the transition from a private, community-based ritual to a public, “circus-like” event mirrors the way media outlets treat high-profile deaths. By prioritizing the spectacle—the attendees, the public displays of sorrow, and the “destiny-altering” nature of the event—outlets provide a distorted view of the individual’s impact. This performance of grief serves as a metaphor for the transactional nature of modern news, where even the most final of events is repackaged as a commodity for public consumption.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does obituary writing often feel insincere?
It often feels insincere when the writer prioritizes their personal relationship with the deceased over a balanced biographical account. This “egocentric” style of journalism focuses on the writer’s status rather than the subject’s legacy.
What is the “tiptoe” trope in journalism?
It is a stylistic cliché used to describe a death as graceful or subtle. Critics view it as a lazy shortcut that avoids describing the actual complexity of a person’s life or the circumstances of their death.
How can readers identify bias in a tribute piece?
Look for the absence of critical analysis or conflicting viewpoints. If the article relies entirely on the writer’s personal memories to define the subject’s character, it is likely a personal narrative rather than an objective piece of journalism.
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