In the festive spirit of the new year, one’s thoughts often turn to well-meaning resolutions, joyous gatherings, and… the dreaded kiss under the mistletoe. While some embrace this tradition, not everyone is thrilled at the prospect. Here are two takes on navigating the sometimes tricky world of holiday smooches.
Firstly, we have the tale of Lopend Vuur, a company that decided to take a stance against unwanted new year’s smooches at their workplace. In a proactive measure, they declared the office a ‘no-kiss’ zone during the holiday celebrations. The move, while perhaps initially met with skepticism, received positive feedback from employees who appreciated the consideration for their personal comfort and safety.
“We want to ensure that our workplace is respectful and enjoyable for everyone,” said the company’s HR representative. “This includes providing a safe environment where employees can feel comfortable expressing their personal boundaries.”
Secondly, consider the case of those who wish to politely decline the seasonal smooch. Het Nieuwsblad offers up some savvy advice: embrace the art of wimpling. Derived from the term ‘wimping out’, wimpling is the art of tactfully and humorously avoiding unwanted kisses. It might involve a playful ‘check-out move’, a mock argument, or a clever joke – whatever works best to diffuse the situation and let both parties continue celebrating with grins on their faces.
Expert tip? “Remember, the key is to be charmingly assertive. Make sure your response is respectful yet firm, maintaining a friendly and humorous tone throughout,” advised Het Nieuwsblad’s lifestyle guru.
As the clock strikes midnight and the bubbly is poured, let us remember that this season of merriment and goodwill can also be about respect, boundaries, and thoughtful consideration for those around us. So here’s to a New Year filled with kisses – only for those who really, really want them!
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