Denada Breaks Silence on Decades-Old Decision Regarding Son, Ressa
Singer Denada Tambunan has publicly addressed the long-standing questions surrounding her decision to allow relatives to raise her son, Ressa Rizky Rossano. After years of remaining largely silent, Denada revealed the complex emotions and reasoning behind her choice, admitting to deep regret and a desire for reconciliation.
The Painful Decision: A Mother’s Dilemma
Denada explained that her decision, made when Ressa was just 10 days old, stemmed from a desire to provide him with a stable family environment. At the time, as a single mother, she feared Ressa would face social stigma and bullying. She believed that being raised by her aunt and uncle, Dino and Ratih, would offer him the consistent presence of both a father and mother figure.
“Ressa is not a mistake, Ressa is not thrown away. I never threw her away,” Denada stated, emphasizing her love for her son. She felt torn between her maternal instincts and what she perceived as Ressa’s best interests. The singer acknowledged the “perfection” she envisioned at the time has since transformed into profound regret.
Years of Silence and Recent Attempts at Contact
For years, Denada remained quiet about the situation, grappling with her feelings. She revealed she confided in her mother, Emilia Contessa, expressing her remorse before her mother’s passing. Recently, Denada has made repeated attempts to contact Ressa, initiating communication on February 3, 2026, following a public acknowledgment of Ressa as her son.
Denada shared examples of her WhatsApp messages to Ressa, expressing her desire to meet and offer a personal explanation. She emphasized her intention to avoid placing any pressure on her son, respecting his potential reluctance to reconnect. “I only wish to meet, if possible just to hug. But only if Ressa wants to. At most 30 minutes,” she wrote in one message.
Ressa’s Response and Public Reaction
Initial responses from Ressa were limited, with a simple “Waalaikumsalam” reply to one of Denada’s messages. Despite the initial lack of response, Denada continued to send messages of support and prayers.
Denada’s public acknowledgment of Ressa and her explanation of the circumstances have been met with widespread support from fellow celebrities and fans. Many have expressed hope for a reconciliation between mother and son.
Legal Developments
Recent reports indicate that Ressa Rizky Rossano is currently pursuing legal action against Denada, though he has acknowledged her as his mother. Details of the lawsuit remain limited.
FAQ
Q: Why did Denada deliver Ressa up for adoption?
A: Denada stated she wanted to provide Ressa with a stable family environment and protect him from potential social stigma due to her unmarried status.
Q: Has Ressa responded to Denada’s attempts to contact him?
A: Ressa initially responded with a simple “Waalaikumsalam” to one message, but further responses are currently unknown.
Q: Is Denada facing legal action from Ressa?
A: Yes, Ressa is reportedly pursuing legal action against Denada, but the specifics are not yet public.
Q: When did Denada publicly acknowledge Ressa as her son?
A: Denada publicly acknowledged Ressa as her son on February 2, 2026.
Did you know? Denada has been actively reaching out to Ressa via WhatsApp since February 3, 2026, sending daily messages of support and a request to meet.
Pro Tip: Navigating complex family relationships requires empathy, patience and a willingness to understand all perspectives. Seeking professional guidance can be beneficial in these situations.
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